To sum it up, we are all HUMANS, not black, white, yellow nor brown.
And,
Anyone, who behaves racistly in anyway with anyone anywhere at anytime or talks about this or that race being better than that or this race, or any race which undermines any other race, are all basically stupidly IGNORANT and UNEDUCATED Dudes in the real sense, despite their whatever highly education degrees, material ranks or posts, or money or social circles, whatever.

If our poor HUMAN race cannot yet learn to improve in these basic things, then what exactly have we achieved by even going to the moon or mars?
All is sham gold while humans exploit or undermine other humans.
When will there be LIGHT ON EARTH? If at all??

It doesn't look good on you! I joined just so I could respond to this thread, although, admittedly, I did not read all of the responses. Please do not give chakli_pandu the credit for writing that response. That is an old circulating blog response that I have seen used over and over in black chat-rooms in order to "put a white woman in her place" time and time again. In fact, I probably think that blog was more than likely written by a woman portraying herself as a man. I am a white woman and I don't mind dating interracially--and so I do sometimes. All chakli_pandu did was find/replace "black" with "indian". Anyway, I am on here because I was interested in dating an Indian guy but I never have before, so I was a little curious about some other people's experiences--this forum came up in my search. I suppose I was a little curious about what their expectations may be of women in general. I am intelligent and currently have one more year of school--I will be working in an undisclosed professional career. I guess I would just like to inform people that not all white women are what you see portrayed in the media...and just because a woman (any race) is good in bed or likes sex, does not mean they are "easy." Women (of all races): seriously, stop being so catty and trying to tear each other down. It's nasty. No one particular race is any better than the other. We all have our own individual strengths, weaknesses, talents and imperfections. We appeal to certain people for certain reasons. Dating out of your race or culture is a personal decision and NO ONE should be upset or bash anyone when they see someone of their own race dating someone from another race. It's simply not their business and it really just shows your own insecurity and jealousy issues.

Wow, this thread is unbelievably stupid: yet very interesting. I only got through half of the reponses until I felt the neccesity to register an post.

OK now its my turn, I am an Indian male, 23, 5'10" solid at 200 and extremely attractive (not just saying that - have been told by White and Indian girls - if you don’t want to believe me I truly do not care, whatever) confident and born in America. I am flabbergasted at the amount incompetence and contradiction going around here. Here you are begging for acceptance of white females but directly after a don’t care if they like me attitude follows in the next sentence. I never would have thought people can be so insecure. I completely accept my nationality as an Indian, but my god this thread just makes Indians look soft, weak-minded, ignorant, and just downright pitiful. I mean cmon we don't need to beg for acceptance of ANYONE. If white people don’t like you its not because we are Indian, its because they do not like you. It does not matter what color you are, if you posses good looks then all girls will be attracted to you. Girls actually don’t even know I am Indian because of my exceeding confidence, my lack of accent, and quoted from numerous white girls "my hotness" (although many white girls do not want to say it here in fear of sounding racist). "white" girls are "easier" is the biggest misconception of them all. Just because Indians believe

To Indian females - If anything (traditional Indian girls) you are wayyy more judgmental than white females. My Aunt defines traditional indian and she is so judgemental, and offensive to white females and even males. Look at all the positive feedback Caucasian females have left for Indian guys, while selective Indian women whirl accusations and negative remarks left and right. Does this not tell you something? Stop using skin color as an assessment because you feel white females do the same, this is truly your own insecurity

For all white girls - I must say I feel predominantly attracted to American raised girls (white Indian Spanish etc.) because of their modern personalities. Skin color does not have anything to do with it. For any Indians who have offended the white girls on this thread I would like to apologize for their rude remarks. We come from a different culture with aboriginal methods of upbringing, so understand they probably did not mean to show disrespect. I actually feel enraged by the numerous bias opinions the men and White/Indian women have stated on this thread. Also for the record not all Indian males listen to their mommy, or try to solely chose their parent's decision. Were not a buncha pu**ies. My family would never pressure me into an arranged marriage, and if they did I would be so uncooperative that they would give up. On the contrary, amongst ALOT of Indian families the concept of arranged marriage has not been diminished.

Indian males - stop begging for acceptance. Some people will like you some wont. Quit being wimps and nut up. A girl does not care what color you are in today's day of age - so stop basing your judgment off a 1960s opinion or way of life of white people . This thread is insulting to Indian males. Do you want all girls to think we are f***ing b***hes? Confidence confidence confidence is what attracts any female. IF YOUR INDIAN, I KNOW FROM EXPERINCE OF PUSHING IT, YOUR FAMILIY WILL LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO! YOUR PARENTS MAY ACT LIKE THEY ARE DISAPOINTED AT FIRST THAT YOU DATE WHITE WOMEN OR SPANISH WOMEN OR WHATEVER, BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THIS IS AN ACT OF MANIPULATION SO DONT FEEL SORRY! IN ADDITION IF THEY ARE TRUELY UPSET THEY WILL GET OVER IT! I KNOW INDIAN PARENTS TEND TO PUT YOU DOWN AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR THE A**HOLE, BUT DO NOT FALL FOR THIS.

If you don’t want to take my advice or want to believe what I say, that’s up to you I don’t care I live happily, I just thought I would try to help some of my people. I can assure you if you do you will see yourself feeling better about yourself and you will be dating anyone you want to date.

-PEACE

I am clueless as to why and how I landed here on this thread and read all the comments posted... I feet sorry reading some of the horror stories and chuckled at the more pointless posts which did nothing but play the blame game. Anyhow, I feel compelled to write down what I think - mostly about 'white' women being 'easy' and the 'promiscuous Indian men'.

I was born and brought up in a modern, cosmopolitan, urban, middle-class Indian society. My parents are educated and were semi-strict but very liberal when I was growing up. I have a younger sister and she was treated exactly the same way as I was, although, being a boy, I can say that I could get away with many more shenanigans than my sister. Anyhow, I had a very sheltered growing-up. I was never popular in school or amongst peers and had very few friends (we are still friends). Kind of a geek/nerd who never topped in school. All my knowledge about the world came from school textbooks, Discovery and National Geographic. The only English movies I watched were the likes of The karate kid, mortal combat, JAWS etc.

Then when I turned 16 my views of the world changed. I fell into bad company and was introduced to pornography. That's when I knew how babies were made. When I was with this particular group of friends, I saw many porn movies and hollywood movies. I noticed that most hollywood movies meant for adults had full/partial/frontal nudity. Guys met girls for the first time and made love. None of the porn movies available at that time had Indian actors. And such foreign porn movies were bountiful. Every kid on the block had access to atleast 5 movies at a time. So I learnt from my peers that 'white culture' is very easy going. Its easy to get 'white' people to bed. Be it men or women. And since none of the porn movies had Indian people, it was assumed that Indian girls are not as uninhibited and thus hard to get into bed.

But this view changed too in a couple of months. As I found out, there were scores of girls in my conservative catholic school who had lost their virginity before turning 14. And its true that some Indian men are 'sex-starved' due to societal customs. One reaches sexual maturity by the age of 14 and gets to have sex after marriage at around 24-25 years of age. No wonder, some Indian men are sex crazy. Its like keeping a hungry tiger chained for a week with no food. In traditional, rural Indian societies, most guys and girls get married as soon as they reach legal marriageable age. So, these people are not that sex crazy. In the cities, where there is more pressure and competition, marriage gets delayed by a significant time and hence there is promiscuity amongst young adults who are trying to adopt a 'western' culture portrayed in popular cinema.

Moral of this story: Indian men consider white women 'easy', thanks to the plethora of nudity and sex seen in hollywood movies and porn movies. Indian women can be promiscuous as well. Anyhow, I personally believe that the only way to stop Indian men of thinking of westerners as 'easy' is as simple as not letting them see western porn and any hollywood movie showing nudity and sex should be banned. Ah, wishful thinking.

Moving on....

Topic: Indian men who promise marriage to white women and go on to marry the girl of their parents choice ::::

There are unfortunate stories of this happening. Indian man comes to USA for a job or to study. Finds a white girl and wants to do the same things with her as he saw in the porno movie while growing up as a kid. Then he faces peer pressure to boast about his sexual exploits to all his friends back home who will worship him and treat him as their idol. So he hatches his master plan. Befriend the girl, coo some lovey-dovey words in her ear, talk about how great their kids will look and then go to bed. All said and done, follow whatever parents have to say and dump the girl. Afterall, she was 'white'.

Well, for starters, this story commonly unfolds in India as well. Guy meets girl, makes false promises and get her into bed. And then leaves her high and dry. And I wouldn't be surprised if this thing happens in other parts of the world, irrespective of color of skin, nationality and religion. Its all too common. The opposite stories exist as well. Woman meets rich and wealthy man, befriends him, proves him how great she is in bed, demands expensive gifts, gets married and then she has access to all his money. Divorce often follows this and the man wonders how he will arrange for the expensive alimony???

Moral of the story: Cheating and promiscuity is rampant in society. Could be anywhere in the world. There is no distinction in class, creed, skin color, race and gender.

**Advice for ALL women: Men, especially Indian men are very skilled in sweet talk. That can be a virtue and also a vice. Especially when dating a person from another culture and nationality, make sure that you are formally introduced to your partners parents, friends, relatives, cousins back from his home country as his better half. If possible, subtly mention your intention of marriage to his family. If you get a positive response from his family, then marriage could be on the cards. If he refuses to introduce you to his family and friends, you should be on the look-out.

Here's what happened some days back:
I live in the midwest now and all my friends are Caucasian. I don't drink alcohol but I do hang out in bars with my friends. So I had this conversation with 2 female friends and a male friend (all Caucasian).

Female friend 1 (FF1): So, you never had a girlfriend? Ever? Why?
Me: I never felt the need to.
FF2: What do you mean? Don't you feel lonely?
Me: I do feel lonely. That's the reason I have you guys. Any anyhow, I am too busy with work to think about a relationship.
FF1: I think you are just opposed to the idea of relationships. Have you ever dated a girl? Asked her out?
Me: No